LDR

I Dint know what LDR stands for when a friend of mine first told me she was giving a speech to persuade us LDR can work, well LDR stands for long distance relationship. The thing is I have seen a few people in LDR, I have seen it failed and i have seen it to be a sucess.

My dad had never worked in Taiping before year 1999 when he finally got transferred to Taiping while my mum,sis, and I was living in Taiping for almost all my life. I don't remember before that but I think in about year 1997-1998 my dad was working in Rawang, Selangor and he used to drive back to Taiping in his old Saga every other weekend, maybe on Friday night and back to Rawang againn on Monday mornings and every school holidays we would go down to KL to visit him.

And I know a friend whose father works in KL and does the same almost every weekend for at least as long as I know her.

And I am sure many other dads/bfs does the same or almost the same.

The thing is I think it is a great effort that they put up with; I dont think its easy at all travelling back and forth. As much as I love coming back to Taiping, I almost despise the journey, and that saying I m not even driving, just sitting there doing nothing.

You see my friend dint suceed in persuading me.LOL. I think LDR MIGHT work , but it depends on the individuals , how hard they are willing to fight for it, and how independent they are. Personally I dont think Im the type that willl survive a LDR. What about you?

P/S- Just a random thought on the way back from KL the other day while ash's dad drove us

PP/S - Another friend of mine who is a strong Un-believer of LDR told me months ago, she will NEVER and will try very hard to abstrain herself from getting into a relationship now cause she knows she's about to go to the states. She also told me that she would wait about ten years into a relationship before getting marrie, I told her she should start finding now then, but wait she cant start unless I match make her with one of the guys from the same course , and they can apply to the same uni...-_-". This is super unrelated to the post but I just find her very cute. If you are reading this, you know who you are..;p